"People change. Feelings change. It doesn't mean that the love once shared wasn't true and real. It simply just means that sometimes when people grow, they grow apart."
- 500 Days of Summer
Love is something that is meant to be taken seriously. Problem is, nowadays, saying I love you to someone is as easy as counting 1, 2, 3. What most people do not realize is that once you say those three words to someone, you make a decision to make that other person assume that he/she is really special to you. Although some people mean what they say, time flies and feelings change.
Spur of the moment? It is doing or saying something on impulse or without premeditation. There are specific moments in our lives wherein the scenario we are in makes us go with the flow. We do not consider other things that are outside the picture, but we are only focusing on the things that are happening as of the moment. So, what is the connection of my last statement to spur of the moment? Let's just say that when we are to overwhelmed with a situation, we tend to do or say things without thinking. Still confused? Here is an example:
A girl and a guy just met. They talked and talked that night to get to know each other even more. What they do not realize is as they talk, they only think of who the other person is to them and what they feel towards each other. Because they are too engrossed with the current scenario, they begin to think that they are in love with each other and the other factors do not really matter anymore. As the days pass by, the burning sensation of this new feeling stays within. But as time flies, the feelings slowly change into something not so desirable.
It is unknown how our feelings change for people. It is most likely because there is nothing interesting in the relationship that makes you want to stay. We cannot control our feelings because it is something that pops out of the blue and makes us go crazy. The only thing that we can do is to be honest and accept the fact that our feelings have changed. It will be hard to begin with, but it will be harder if you will prolong the feelings that were never meant for you.
It hurts to be inlove with someone who already fell for someone else I don't know what Ive done wrong. All of a sudden, everything he said before became lies. =(
ReplyDeleteLove is seasonal. There's summer, winter, spring and fall. Summer is the best season of love because it is where the romance and flame of the new love forms. Winter is the worst season. This is the time wherein the love between two people begins to wither.
Deleteang sakit dba? umasa ka, pinaasa ka nga lang. nagmahal ka lang talaga tapos para pala sa kanya, biro lang yung pagmamahal. siguro nga sa simula lang.
ReplyDeleteMay ibang tao kasi na, madali para sa kanilang magbitaw ng salita. Hindi nila iniisip kung anong mararamdaman nung taong pinapaasa nila. May iba naman na, nagmamahal dahil masyado silang na-overwhelm sa situation na 'yun. Pero after some time, nawawala din kasi may nahanap ng iba.
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