Have you ever been someone's second choice? The second option? The second priority? The feeling wherein he/she says that you are important or you mean a lot to them, but deep inside, you know that there is always someone they prefer to be with? Been there, felt that.
Ever asked yourself this question: Why should I be the second option when you have always been my first? Ohh, right! Because I will never be enough. There are these moments in our lives wherein we just feel like saying, "I am not a second option. You either choose me or you lose me!" Funny thing is, we just can't. Know why? Because we know that they will never choose us and it will be too painful to lose that person even if they never made us the only one and the priority.
While it is true that nobody deserves to be the second option, we cannot avoid this certain kind of scenario. It just so happens that the second option is needed because the first option was not working out. HAHA! You know what second options are like? A piece of meat that is saved up for later when the first option is not available. It hurts to get punched by the truth, right? It hurts to feel so used and mistreated when all you ever do is put so much effort into the relationship, but it never seems enough that is why you just get left behind when the real priority comes along again.
By the end of the day, here's a thought:
"Never settle for being someone's other when you have the potential to be someone's only."
