Have you ever been someone's second choice? The second option? The second priority? The feeling wherein he/she says that you are important or you mean a lot to them, but deep inside, you know that there is always someone they prefer to be with? Been there, felt that.
Ever asked yourself this question: Why should I be the second option when you have always been my first? Ohh, right! Because I will never be enough. There are these moments in our lives wherein we just feel like saying, "I am not a second option. You either choose me or you lose me!" Funny thing is, we just can't. Know why? Because we know that they will never choose us and it will be too painful to lose that person even if they never made us the only one and the priority.
While it is true that nobody deserves to be the second option, we cannot avoid this certain kind of scenario. It just so happens that the second option is needed because the first option was not working out. HAHA! You know what second options are like? A piece of meat that is saved up for later when the first option is not available. It hurts to get punched by the truth, right? It hurts to feel so used and mistreated when all you ever do is put so much effort into the relationship, but it never seems enough that is why you just get left behind when the real priority comes along again.
By the end of the day, here's a thought:
"Never settle for being someone's other when you have the potential to be someone's only."
Goodmorning miss I know how much it hurts to be the second option I've been cheated twice but now I still feel like the secons option even though my current boyfriend is loyal I still feel a void but I try to make it to a point wherein we can have proper communication to talk about things well for us it works but it should always have a follow up talk. Hopefully I helped you in a way.
ReplyDeleteHello there! :)
DeleteThere are some instances in our lives wherein we can't help but think that we are the second option because of the previous experiences that we had. The best thing to do when that happens is to be pretty positive and just learn to believe and trust the person who loves us.
I also agree that communication plays a vital role in a relationship. Without it, a relationship might decline and suffer.
Goodluck on your relationship and may your love last!
I know the feeling girl its hard but if we really love the person we must endure it and think about your future with them. You know miss I read your other blogs I think your in a tough situation right now. Yes communication is a vital part but in your blogs it seems like your confused or something well all I can say is talk to you partner and fix it before it's too late your partner might let go. Best of luck to you relationship:>
DeleteComplications will always be a part of life. I think those situations happen to make us realize what we really want or if we really like to stick around much longer. I might or might not be confused right now, but as each day passes by, I slowly realize the importance of each person that plays a vital role in my life. Aside from that, I also have the time to get to know the people who do not matter to me anymore because they don't give me much of an importance.
DeleteBy the way, thank you for reading my other entries. I hope you enjoy them. :)
Well goodevening miss I'm the one.who posted the comments above well O was wondering when will you post some now blogs?
DeleteHi, Chelsea! :)
DeleteI posted Six Degrees of Separation last week. I'll be posting something new today. I'm sorry if I don't get to update my blog often. I'm currently on vacation and I'm trying to make the most out of it. From now on, I'll try to blog twice or thrice a week. :)
Thank you!